Hi, I'm Becca!
As a sensitive, creative soul, I spent years feeling like I didn't belong, trying to be who others wanted me to be, and feeling like I could never truly be happy or love life. I thought there was something wrong with me for desiring more, and that I'd have to settle for a normal, complacent life. This led to depression and a rut it took years to get out of. I tried therapy and medication, I read all of the self-help books, I did all of the "steps" guaranteed to make me happy and successful, I even tried not caring anymore and just coasting through life with whatever got me through the days... and through it all, I was still unhappy.
It wasn't until I truly understood and accepted myself for my uniqueness, worked through my conscious and unconscious ways keeping me in unhealthy patterns, and connected with my passion and purpose - a reason outside of myself to live and impact the world - that I finally have experienced true happiness and excitement in life. Our lives are ours to create and experience as we want - they're not meant for us to merely settle into.
Similarly, you're meant for more. Your life path has always meant to be different from the norm, and the more you try to follow the cookie-cutter path the more lost and miserable you feel. That's why I'm here to support you with where you are right now on your life journey, help you reconnect to your vision and purpose, hold you accountable to making the changes you desire, and guide you back to your true self with a variety of techniques such as:
Life and Success Coaching
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
Myers-Briggs (MBTI )
Timeline Integration (TIME Techniques)
Hello, and welcome to my corner of the universe!
I grew up as a deep-thinking, creative, sensitive, dreamer who felt like I didn't fit in anywhere, and I am so grateful to live a life I love where I get to fully and unapologetically be myself as I pursue my passion and purpose filled with supportive people.
But my life wasn't always like this.
I grew up with lots of trauma and challenges that weighed down on me, and I spent years constantly looking for approval from others while hiding my wants and needs to feel loved and accepted. I didn't know who I was or what I wanted, and thought if I kept doing the "right" things, eventually I'd end up happy and life would get easier.
Oh, was I wrong.
I spent years trying to be who others wanted me to be, until I realized just how much I hated myself and my life. I consumed by my depression, and as if I was meant to suffer, be miserable, and experience hardship after hardship. I thought acting edgy and tough would make me seem confident and carefree, but I truly felt like there was something wrong with me, and that I wasn't meant to be happy like others seemed.
I found myself feeling trapped, from being in a toxic and abusive relationship, to working various jobs that uninspired and depleted me for people who took advantage of me, thinking that I had to deal with being exhausted and mistreated to survive.
Like many others, I finally went to therapy, thinking that was the only support for my internal growth. After a few months I was always told that I was self-aware enough and they couldn't help me anymore (event though I was still unhappy), and I even had one therapist tell me that I would always need therapy and medication to function normally and be happy in life.
This was my pattern for many years, and I slowly felt my passion, motivation, and excitement for life be sucked out of me until I was just a shell of a human.
I stayed hidden behind an angsty attitude, constant irritability, and a victimizing mindset.
My life was unbearable, and I couldn't take it anymore. I knew I wanted better, but didn't know how to get there. It wasn't until I went to my first psychic session that my eyes started to open. She told me that I needed to step up and take control over my life again, and quit holding myself back from what I was meant to experience in this life. I remember specifically asking her if I would ever be happy, and she said as long as I put in the work to bettering my life, then yes.
I was so inspired that I dedicated myself to figuring out who I was and what I wanted, and worked through anything that was standing in my way so I could finally live a happy, inspiring, freeing, and peaceful life.
I was done allowing myself to stay stuck in situations that made me miserable, not following my calling and purpose, and being a victim to my circumstances.
I embraced my struggles as fuel to create a better life for myself, and motivation to be the best I can be for myself and others.
I used my challenges to better my life.
Don't get me wrong, it wasn't simple or easy. I came across a lot of setbacks as I navigated through major changes that came from me stepping up (a break up, moving states, career changes, losing friends and family, etc.) on top of confronting many limiting beliefs and pressures - from family, society, and some that I'd been carrying with me since childhood.
Some days I celebrated, some days I cried, either way it took time, patience, repetition, and change for me to let go and move on from the comfort and safety of what I'd known and accepted as my life, story, and identity.
It was all worth it to finally reconnect with my true self and gain the clarity to know what my life is meant to look and feel like.
The inner work never ends, it simply changes and grows with you, and it's worth it at every stage.
Now, I finally get to help people deeply with this exact same work, because I know from experience it's so much easier to get through when you have someone supporting you along the way.
I know exactly who I am, what's important to me, what I have to offer the world, what my purpose is, how to live a lifestyle that excites me, and how to truly be myself without hiding behind personas or pretending to be what others might want.
And most importantly...
I refuse to settle for anything or anyone that doesn't allow me to embody my most authentic, motivated, and confident self.
I'd like to share a secret with you.
I didn't "discover" my true self in this process. There wasn't a profound experience where I "found myself." My true self was always there, and part of me always knew she was there. She was simply buried under layers and layers of pain, shame, and limiting beliefs. All I did was clear out the layers so she could exist freely again.
This is the same for you.
Your true self is within you. You probably already have a sense of who they are too. But they're staying hidden away under layers of struggles, pain, and trauma. I'm here to help you bring them to the surface and give them the space to exist the way they've always been meant to exist. I'm not here to tell you or show you who you're meant to be or what you're meant to do, I'm simply here to help support you in bringing what you already know to be true to your life, and show you how to make it last.
Publications and Events
Bombshell Betty's Halloween Parade Fashion Show at Keys Camp Fitness Studio - Oct 2011
Models of Colorado - Featured model - Dec 2012
Denver Creatives Collaborative/Art Gallery Nights - June 2013
Denver Creatives Collaborative/Art Gallery Nights - July 2013 (3rd Place)
Breakfast with Becca Briggs - July 2013
Slide Show with GJ Image - Sept 2013
Dude Shit featured Web Hottie - Oct 2013
Glamour Model Magazine Feature (NSFW) - Oct 2013
BTS Video with Jay Kilgore Photography & West Coast Allure for Glamour Model Magazine (NSFW) - Oct 2013
Gunnar Nettleship Photography 2014 Calendar
Glamour Model Magazine Double Feature - Feb 2014
RAW Denver: Mosaic - Hair Stylist Runway Show for Stefanie Walker - March 2014
Blogging for Love... - March 2014
Ms Bombshell Fantasy Pin Up Special Edition - April 2014
Surreal Beauty Magazine - All Summer Long - June 2014
Surreal Beauty Magazine - Welcome to the Machine - Aug 2014
Surreal Beauty Magazine - Come and Get It - Aug 2014
Aspira Magazine Issue 13 Creative Makeup - Sept 2014
Delicious Dolls September Hot Rods Issue - Sept 2014
Dynamic Nudes Workshop model - Oct 2014
Grayscale Magazine 2015 Zodiac Calender - Oct 2014
Grayscale Magazine Issue 2 - Oct 2014
Emily Dear Heart Designs Fashion Show - Assistant Coordinator - Nov 2014
Heels for Combat Books Book & Calendar - Nov 2014
Alternative Revolution Magazine Issue 10 - Dec 2014
Dynamic Nudes Workshop 2015 Calendar
Gunnar Nettleship Photography 2015 Calendar
Behind the Looking Glass Volume 1 - Jan 2015
BeauNU Magazine Volume 2 - July 2015
Lucha Diabolica - Oct 2015
Gothesque Magazine Nov 2015 Vol 1 - Nov 2015
Model Society Magazine Vol 2 - Dec 2015
Gunnar Nettleship Photography 2016 Calendar
Jodajen Collection Vol. 3 - Jan 2016
Lady and a Lens Magazine - White Issue - Feb 2016
Empower Magazine Issue 23 - Volume 3 - June 2016
Here Kitty Kitty! Fashion and Artistic Nude - June 2016
Abandoned Colorado - July 2016
Shift Spaces Grand Opening - Promo Event with Handsome Little Devils featuring body paint by Robin Slolina
Becca Briggs 2017 Calendar
Romantic Rock & Emily Dear Heart Winter Fashion Show - Jan 2017
Found Colorado - March 2017
JellyBaby Magazine Issue 10 - Dec 2017
Becca Briggs 2018 Calendar
The Dunes - Feb 2018
Becca In Water - March 2018
Model Mayhem Q&A - March 2018
Phoenixcry Book Series - 2018
Becca Briggs 2019 Calendar
Danger Escape - "Dead to Me" Music Video - Jan 2019
Offbeat Bride - Gothic Chic Bridal Shoot - Jan 2019
McCadden Place - "A Spark of Inspiration" Music Video - June 2019
So This Is Love - The Lodge at Malibou Lake Styled Gothic Wedding - Aug 2019
Elite Daily - 20 Photos of Halloween Weddings That Are So Boo-tiful, You'll Want to Copy Them Asap - Sep 2019
Storyboard Wedding - Gothic Halloween Wedding Inspiration with Bright Florals - Oct 2019
Becca Briggs 2020 Calendar
Nudamag Issue 12 - Aug 2021
Photo Vogue - Aug 2021
Shoutout LA - meet Becca Briggs - Aug 2022